What Women Want Part I

Men and woman are polar opposites in nearly every way. Think about it: men are closed about their feelings, women are not. Men like attention from other women at gentlemen’s clubs, women like attention from other men at bars. Men want sex right away, women do not. And you wanna know a secret about the last one? Women already know that you want sex right away. So the first thing you need to learn is to stop pushing it on them. After all, how often does this approach really work? Almost never.

The good news is that you can start doing things to get a woman into bed faster. It’s all a matter of changing your approach. For instance, instead of making it blatantly obvious that you want sex, just be cool about it. You can become appealing to a woman by simply being easygoing, funny, understanding and…a good listener. Women gravitate towards men who are good listeners. And there’s a reason so many women say they want a guy who can listen: because they do. And women want guys who not only listen, but also validate their feelings. Women are talkers, and they like to be listened to. So if you can do just that alone, chances are she’ll want to feel closer: physically closer. Of course, it takes more than just being a good listener to land a girl in bed. You also need to be easygoing, funny, and flirtatious. We’ll get more into this later. But for now, let’s talk about what women want.

We’ll talk more about what women want soon…

Surprise Her and Get Laid!

Here’s a fact: women love surprises, no matter how big or small. They love to see that you were thinking about them and that you made the effort to show it by surprising them (as long as it’s occasional and not all the time). By doing so, it could get you laid! Here are a few great tips to surprise your lady, and in turn possibly get her to surprise you with the best sex of your life!

- Leave a little love note under her pillow, on her car windshield, or in her lunch.

- Call her during the day to tell her you were thinking about her and just wanted to say hi.

- Buy her favorite snack/candy as a TGIF treat (or anytime).

- Turn your place (or hers) into a relaxation spa, complete with candles, soft music, and her personal masseur (you) for when she comes home from a hard day.

- Tell her you’re taking her to a sports bar for the evening to hang out with your guy friends. Instead, get tickets to see her favorite artist/group in concert or favorite play and take her there.

- If she has a secret fantasy like having sex with the poolboy or a firefighter, surprise her by dressing up like one and playing out her favorite scenario.

- Get her favorite new movie the day it comes out on DVD.

- Cook her favorite meal after a hard day (and clean up afterwards).

- Spoil her by watching a marathon of her favorite TV show with her.

- Out of the blue, grab her, give her a passionate kiss, and tell her how she’s so sexy, you can’t stand it!

These are just a few suggestions to get you started. If you’re going to surprise her with flowers, try doing it with a twist: like giving her a chocolate rose.

Calling Women

The same rules as emailing apply with making a first call. Give it a day or two unless you both had just an undeniable chemistry.

If you get her voice mail, you have a few options:

• leave her a message so you don’t have to keep calling

• call and try again later if you get the voice mail, but leave a msg the second time so she doesn’t think you’re a stalker

• keep calling until she picks up. If she asks why you keep calling and didn’t just leave a message, you can tell her you don’t like leaving messages (which also could make you appear more mysterious).

  

When you guys do finally speak:

- be funny

- be Confident

- keep it interesting – don’t bring up the weather

- get to the point: suggest that you guys meet up

And most importantly, don’t be wimpy about asking her out:

First Date Rules Part I:

You’ve heard all the rules before about first dates. Now forget everything you’ve heard in the past. Here’s what you really need to know about great first dates.

1. Make the effort to look presentable. Take a shower, wear a nice outfit that’s not dirty or wrinkled, and shave when applicable. The way you present yourself to your date is a reflection to her of how would potentially treat her down the road.

2. Be on time for your date. No one likes to be kept waiting. If you’re going to be more than 10 minutes late, call her cell to let her know (and make sure you both have each other’s cell numbers prior to the date).

3. Bring gum or mints and use when necessary. Nothing turns off a date faster than bad breath. It might also be a good idea carry a tiny package of dental floss to remove food between your teeth during trips to the restroom.

4. When you finally see your date, smile and give her direct eye contact. Watch her body language closely to see if she wants a hug or a handshake. If it’s a hug, give her a firm hug, but not too hard. If it’s a handshake, give her a firm shake (but again not too tight).

5. Keep focused on your date. Don’t let your eyes wander when another girl walks in. It’s considered rude and trust us, your date will notice.

6. Do not hijack the date by only talking about yourself. Women are very turned off by men who just talk about themselves. Make sure there’s a good balance of talking and listening. Also, do not “brag” about your accomplishments and/or material possessions. Women view this as insecurity. Just act naturally, and your worth will speak for itself.

7. When you converse with your date, listen to what she is saying, and validate her feelings when applicable. This is by far one of the most important things to remember. If a woman sees that you’re a good listener and can talk to you about almost anything, you are halfway there.

8. Don’t take calls on your cell during a date unless you believe it’s an emergency. Leave your cell on silent or vibrate during the date.

9. When a woman looks good on a date, she’s looking good for you. And women like to hear that you noticed. So without telling her that she’s beautiful or has pretty eyes (which she’s already heard a million times from other guys), find a creative way to compliment her. Example:

“I noticed you took the time to look nice on our date, and I just wanted to say I appreciate that.”

More first date rules to come!

First Date Rules Part II:

As promised…more dating rules!

10. Be Creative. Women often get flowers on dates - and at the verybeginning. Be different and surprise her in a different way by giving her flowers or a rose during the date or at the very end. Or, combine flowers with another favorite among women: a chocolate rose.

11. When you’re conversing,…

Emailing Women

So you go home with that chick’s number or email.

Now what?…

Getting a woman’s digits or email isn’t a guarantee that she’ll go out with you. You still have to demonstrate that you’ve got game. If you only have a girl’s email, here’s what to do:

• A good rule on thumb is to wait a day or two before emailing her. Don’t email right away unless you guys had such electrifying chemistry in person. Otherwise, you’ll appear too eager. Show her that you have a life.

• When you do finally email, make it light and brief. Tell her you enjoyed speaking with her and suggest that you guys speak on the phone to find a time to meet up. Remember to be Confident and not wimpy about it.

• Avoid using emoticons like this ;). It’s cute when women do it but looks lame when guys do (quite a number of women in fact find emoticons annoying). But if you feel you must, at least use animated emoticons: they look a lot cooler. Or, find another way to accentuate your points: like writing, hahahaha or lol.

• If she responds back with her number, great. If she asks for your number instead, then at least it takes the pressure off you to make the first call. Also, don’t get mad if she doesn’t respond back to you right away. Girls get busy and they have lives too.

How To Get Women To Approach You

Want women to come up to you and strike up a conversation? It’s not as hard as you think. All it takes is a little Creativity!

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Where To Meet Women

Although you can meet women virtually anywhere, some places are definitely better than others. Malls and shopping centers are of course great areas to meet lots of women. Here are other places you can often find tons of girls:

• Coffee shops
• Bookstores
• Yoga/medication classes
• Adult Education courses
• Relationship lectures
• Dance classes
• Libraries
• Hiking trails
• Chick flicks
• Plays
• Soap opera conventions
• Volunteer events
• Traffic school
• Wine tastings
• Art/Gallery openings & museums

Adult Dating is Getting Safer !

Yesterday, late afternoon lawmakers in New Jersey enacted America’s FIRST online dating legislation. The name for the new document ? The Internet Dating Safety Act. Not very original, but there’s no better way to describe it. The Internet Dating Safety Act required Online Dating services to disclose their criminal background screening practices and offer tips and guidelines for a safer date.

Even though I see this as a healthy step, I do feel however that the over exaggerate a little bit, in talking about the Internet as an unsafe place. The Internet or Online Dating is not unsafe. However, the Internet is a public place and dating is a social gathering of people, and there can be a rotten tomato in every batch. But it’s a Dating Website’s responsibility to protect there members, so we hope this leads to better quality websites.

Now just hope everybody reads the tips, instead of just drooling at profiles

Adult Dating Amazingly Popular in Dublin!

A little while ago I received an article that was published in the Irish “Metro” Newspaper. A quote from the article:
“More people here than in any other city in Ireland or the UK use the web to set up trysts with no strings attached”. Rather interesting don’t you think ?

What I also thought was very remarkable, was the fact that most of the people search around 4 o’clock in the afternoon. For a lot of folks these are working times ? So a lot of people look for Sex at work. If only their employers knew I’ve attached the article for you guys to read..