XXXBlackBook Video Demo

A couple of days ago, we showed you guys the review we did for XXXBlackBook.com. Hope you enjoyed that In order to give you a better idea of the total site and features we also did (As we feel that is expected from us) a video demo from the site. I think that it looks very good, and you get a good feel of what the site is about.

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Online Dating Q&A

I keep writing to chicks on the site telling them I love their tits but no one’s writing back. What the hell’s wrong with these skanks?

R. Allen

Austin, TX

Answer:

The problem lies in your approach and attitude. First of all, it’s disrespectful to call women “skanks.” Most women also do not respond positively to remarks that you “love their tits.” If you were more respectful and less offensive, you might have better success with the ladies.

I don’t have a photo on my profile and everyone keeps asking me for one. I’m a great looking guy. I just don’t feel like posting my photos. Why is everyone so hung up on looks?

camerashy

Los Angeles, California

Answer:

Everyone’s so hung up on looks because that’s the way it’s been since the beginning of time. And since most online daters won’t even consider dating someone without seeing a photo first, it’s a good idea to post at least one picture if you want any success with online dating. Daters want to have an idea of whom they’re talking to - don’t you? And besides, if you’re such a “great looking guy,” what do you have to worry about anyway?

I’ve never done an Adult Personals site before and have no idea what to write to someone. What do you suggest?

Staring At A Blank Screen

Des Moines, Idaho

Answer:

We get this question a lot. First of all, read the person’s profile and see if you can pick out something from that. If you can’t find anything, look at their photos and see if you can comment on that. Keep in mind that since many Adult Dating members get a ton of email, your best bet is to find ways to make your notes stand out from the rest. Be creative and original.

Refining Your Profile

Not getting any…responses, that is?

Or at least as many responses as you’d like to? Sounds like your profile’s due for a check up. Refining your profile is an excellent way to generate more hits and tempt members who passed on your profile before to take another look. Here are several easy steps to enhancing your profile.

Reexamine Your Photos

First, take a look at your photos. Do the photos best represent you? Do you even have photos up? It’s important to post pictures since most members will only look at profiles with photos. It’s also important to upload your best quality photos. Otherwise, you’re taking a gamble with potential hook-ups who may pass on you solely based on a bad picture. If you’ve had the same photos up for awhile, upload new ones. Include appealing photos that show a variety of sides: playful, sexy, flirtatious, seductive etc. Don’t upload photos of you standing next to your sports car or swarmed around half naked girls. Women consider these type of photos extremely tacky. Another great way to catch someone’s eye is to periodically rotate the order of your photos. Active members will often notice.

Change Your Screen Name and Headline

You can change your screen name and headline any time. A new handle and headline could help spark interest in you profile. Do you have a catchy headline or is it blah? A caption like “Need You Tonight for Sex” will attract people more than “Need Sex.” After all, every member on Adult Dating sites is there because they need someone for sex, right?

Sharpen Your Essays

OK, now on to the essays. Are your essays brief or long? Do you come across as confident or arrogant? Do you suggest in your essays that you’re open to meeting a variety of people or are you being picky? Most online daters don’t have the time to read long essays, and the majority is also turned off by arrogance. Another reason you might not be getting results is because your requirements are too rigid. The more flexible you are with looks, age, height, weight and location, the better your chances of getting responses and eventually getting laid. Another indication that it’s time to redo your essays is if you’re not getting the kind of responses you want. Remember to be as specific as you can about what you’re looking for.

Have A Friend Look Over It

Don’t be afraid to get a second opinion about your profile from a friend or two. Have your buddies look it over and ask for their honest opinions. After all, who knows you better than your friends? They might be able to spot things in your profile that you wouldn’t have noticed or realized. An even better idea is to have a female friend take a look at it, since they’re the sex you’re trying to appeal to.

XXXBlackBook Review

As announced a while ago, we would review the new dating site XXXBlackbook.com. Well we have, and it was a pretty interesting few weeks. We came along a couple of thins we did not like, but also a LOT of things we did like. Read our Full Review Here

Why Adult Dating Is So Popular

There are tons of reasons to use Adult Dating for all your sex needs. The biggest reason of course: it’s the easiest way to get laid! Let’s go over some of the other major pointers.

No Beating Around The Bush

With Adult Personals, all parties involved have one goal in mind: getting laid! This means no having to beat around the bush with coffee dates, dinner dates, or sitting in a movie for over two hours! With Adult Dating, you can just get straight to the point.

Millions Of Horny Women

Adult Dating sites have millions upon millions of members: a majority of them hot, sexy women just waiting to get their hands on you. No matter where you are, you can be assured there are plenty of hot babes in your area ready to get on all fours for you.

Sex Guarantee

A number of Adult Dating sites are now offering a guarantee that you’ll get laid.

SexSearch.com, for example, is the only site to offer a 100-day guarantee. If don’t get laid within 100 days, they’ll throw in 100 days FREE! It’s a no-lose situation… unless you count losing your pants.

Instant Messaging

Many Adult Dating sites have Instant Messaging so you can get laid twice as fast as email. This means whenever you’re horny, simply IM with a babe in your area and arrange a sex encounter right on the spot.

Live Video Chat

If you feel like just staying home and chatting with other sexy Adult Personals members, a number of Adult Dating sites offer live video chat. Imagine: you and a hot babe…engaged in erotic one-on-one video chat…anything goes…

Giving Good IM

Now that many Adult Dating sites have Instant Messaging, it means you can hook up instantly without having to wait for an email reply! When you connect with a girl through IM, keep the conversation brief but interesting. Women have their pick of men to converse with on a site like SexSearch, so when you have the opportunity to chat with a woman, be witty, funny, and different than the other guys in order to keep her attention. Don’t bring up the usual boring topics like: “What do you do?” “Where are you from?” These questions are often a waste of time that often lead to her writing, “Well gotta go. Catch you later!” Instead, ask questions that are edgy like:

“So, how many guys offered to send you pics of their penis tonight…5? 10?”

Also, do not become a woman’s chat buddy by keeping the conversation going for too long. After about five minutes of chatting, seal the deal with a statement like this:

“Let’s meet up and see what kind of trouble we can get into.”

Also keep in mind that women are not like men. Contrary to what you might think, most women do not want sex right away like men. Many will want to get to know you a little better first….even on Adult Personals. Relax, if you play your cards right, you can still get laid within hours of meeting…if not sooner! Women also like to be treated with respect. So don’t overdo the sex talk by becoming totally obscene and vulgar without getting to know her first. Find a comfort level between you two, and then you can get as nasty as you’d like.

Playing it cool is key. If you come across as a unique, fun guy who can put the topic of sex out there without saying it directly…that’ll increase your chances of getting laid. Women love this sort of thing. They love to have imagery swirl inside their heads. Here are some examples of good IM with just the right amount of sexual innuendo.

“So how do you like it….rough or gentle…(take a pause) a man’s handshake, of course.”

“Right now I’m HARD….(take a pause)….hard to predict, that is.”

“Forget dinner. Let’s meet for dinner…(take a pause) and breakfast…”

The Quick Guide To Getting Laid

1. Groom yourself well before a date. Look good.

2. Be confident. Have good posture. Present yourself as if you’ve had tons of experience with women.

3. When you meet, give your date direct eye contact and speak up. Give a firm handshake or hug.

4. Be easygoing and flexible. Women gravitate towards men who can just roll with the punches.

5. Be funny and engaging in conversation to ease the tension.

6. Don’t come across like the only thing on your mind is sex. When women sense this, they start to resist.

7. Flirt. Flirt. Flirt. Women love flirting. It’s what gets them wet for sex.

8. Throw in occasional sexual innuendos to keep things interesting.

9. Increase the sexual tension by occasionally touching her hand, stroking her arm, or touching her face.

10. Remember to take things s-l-o-w. A woman will let you know when she’s ready to move things forward sexually.

Approaching Hot Women II

Be Fast On Your Feet

Hot women ike to know that their man can react quickly when things are thrown their way. After all, why would a hot woman – who can get any man she wants – be with a guy who gets stumped easily and can’t make snap decisions? An example…

WRONG:

Her: What should we do tonight?

You: I dunno. What do you wanna do?

RIGHT:

Her: What should we do tonight?

You: Let’s try that new Italian place on Main St.

You can sharpen your quick thinking skills by having your friends draft up similar questions and test you. If you’re not getting the hang of it, just keep practicing, and you eventually should.

Read more…

Approaching Hot Women Part I

With approaching attractive women, you’ll have to take a unique approach. Since hot women can get any guy they want, you have to show them that you’re different from the rest by offering them something of value.

Don’t Be Afraid Of Her

First of all, you have to learn not to freak out at the sight of a hot woman. Remember that hot women are like everyone else: they also burp, fart, and shit just like us men ;-). Once you get over the stigma that attractive women are unapproachable, you should start to feel less nervous at the very sight of them, and eventually feel no nervousness at all.

Take Charge

Hot women like men who know what they’re doing. This also applies to when men approach women. Be the one to initiate eye contact and conversation. Again, do not be afraid of hot women. If you come across like it’s no big deal to go up to talk to them, chances are they will be impressed. Be the first to initiate: both with conversation and making plans. Hot women do not like having to tell their girlfriends that they had to make the first move, because then they are the ones wearing the pants.

More on this subject coming soon!

Looking Better For Women

While looks aren’t everything to women, you do have to look your best. Women aren’t typically fans of baldness, obesity, and excessive hair.

- If you’re losing your hair, look into hair growth solutions. Also, if your hair’s turning grey or already grey, you might want to look into getting it dyed for a more youthful appearance.

- If you have excessive chest or back hair, look into getting it waxed or lasered off. Also, pluck any excessive nose hairs, eyebrows, and ear hairs with a pair of tweezers. Nothing turns a woman off quicker than a guy with excessive hair.

- If you’re out of shape, start some form of exercise. You don’t have to have the perfect body. But most women like men who are athletic and fit.

You should also have several matching casual outfits. As you probably already know, women have a thing for shoes, including yours – as in the condition you keep them in. Shell out the money on a nice pair and keep them in good shape. If you’re not a style person (not many of us guys are), have a female friend accompany you to pick out what you need. Gay men are also typically good in this department. So if you’re acquaintances or friends with any, ask them for help (yes seriously…you’re shopping with them, not dating them).

Women also like guys with nice teeth. So it would probably pay to spend the cash on getting your teeth whitened if they need it.

Also: make sure to groom fingernails and toenails accordingly. If you have skin problems (acne), see a dermatologist.

The good news: many Adult Personals sites like SexSearch have lots of other great dating tips to help you get laid quicker. Check them out now!