How To Get A Woman To Open Up

Andrew wrote on 2008 June, 24 Many women have defense mechanisms when they detect that a man�s trying to approach them. But there are things you can do to get them to lower their guard.

Approach Them Slowly

When you approach a woman aggressively, it’ll often cause her to automatically “push back.” Women who’ve never met you also need their personal space, so make sure to lean back when speaking to her. If she’s into you, she’ll lean in towards you.

Be Cool, Not Creepy

Approaching a woman with a fixed look on your face can make you look psycho. Just be calm, cool, and collected when you approach, and you’ll come across more naturally.

Keep Conversation Light

Don’t try to get into a meaningful discussion when first meeting a woman. Make small talk. Observe the environment you’re both in, make a comment about it, and go from there.

Pace Yourself

Don’t go in for the kill right away by asking for her number up front. Talk a little first – but not too much. Then after about five minutes suggest speaking again and ask for a number, email address, or business card.

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